Carter— Living a Life of Leadership, Confidence, and Character

Carter still remembers the first time he stepped into a First Tee class. He was 10 years old, a little nervous, and trying something completely new. Golf felt unfamiliar, but what intimidated him most wasn’t the sport. It was the confidence everyone else seemed to have.

His coach introduced himself, then asked Carter to do the same. That simple moment changed everything.

“The coach had us introduce ourselves. He told me to look him in the eye when I speak, have confidence, and a firm handshake,” Carter shared. “Here I am today, looking a group of strangers in the eye because First Tee taught me confidence.”

That new-found confidence quickly revealed what First Tee has always been about: Building Game Changers.

“I soon realized First Tee is so much more than just learning the game of golf. First Tee is about learning values such as honesty, respect, patience, and perseverance. Qualities that I will use every day, not just on the course.”

Growing Through the Game

Golf offered Carter a new way to approach challenges. Every round tested patience, resilience, and focus. Every mistake became a learning moment.

“You’re not going to play your best every day, but through First Tee, I’ve learned that every round, whether you played well or poorly, gives you an opportunity to grow. The game teaches you patience, focus, and how to keep your emotions in check.”

These lessons didn’t stay on the course. They helped shape his mindset in school, friendships, and life.

“It reminds you that progress isn’t instantaneous. The most important thing you can do is respond to the things that did not go as planned.”

Opportunities That Inspire Leadership

Recently, Carter traveled to Florida along with two other First Tee — Greater Philadelphia participants, for a national First Tee leadership experience— the Innovators Forum. There, he worked with participants from across the country on ways youth can improve their communities.

“We created service projects for our community, along with meeting other First Tee participants from all over America. With the help of each other, we grew our ideas to help create a plan to make a true impact.”

Carter’s project focused on bringing health and wellness to his school through a student-led club.

“It was a great experience that taught me how young people can come together to make a true difference.”

Opening Doors for the Future

From earning a scholarship that allows him to attend private school, to connecting with corporate and golf leaders, First Tee has helped expand Carter’s world.

“I’m incredibly thankful. That opportunity has introduced me to a new environment that constantly pushes me to do better and be better where I can continue to grow.”

He also joined Caddie Academy and now enjoys caddying at some of the region’s top courses.

“Caddying has taught me the importance of skills like responsibility and courtesy, while also helping me build connections in golf. It has opened doors for me to caddy at amazing courses like Aronimink. I really enjoy meeting new people and learning from their life experiences.”

The Future Looks Bright

Carter doesn’t just want to play the game. He wants to pay forward every lesson he’s gained.

“I know I want to live a life of service to my community. I want to be a leader, and I am excited for my future. I plan on continuing to be involved in First Tee and hope to volunteer. I want to give back to this organization who has given me so much.”

He finished his speech with a message to the coaches, volunteers, and supporters who fuel our mission:

“You have allowed me and others to access experiences and lessons that will stick with us for our lives. I can say with confidence that this program has changed the trajectory of my life.”